you are the principal actor of your life's film

We are all actors , we need just to play our roles at the right moment. we are all important and no one is able to play our roles more than ourselves.
Nobody choose where, how, or with which sex to born. Those attributions are part of our natural identity.

while growing, you develop some aspect of your capacities then you find a place in the society: you'll get many others attributions(teacher, student, director, workers...) you may experience in your life some states like:( rich, pour,...). Some sensations like: (happiness, sadness...)would be also experienced.

All the circomstances of the life are part of our film in which we have a role to play or to discover at the moment(improvisation). The role can be activ or passiv, but some time we use to do what is not important  and wast time  and energy , up to disordinate this part of the film. Now you permite others elements(like police,reponsables,...) to come on the field and renew the Harmony. Each part of the film have a special feeling, some part don't need special effect(exagerations or accessories, speech), some scenes need more perfections, others less. All the actors need some elements like patient and humility especially in time of disharmony in oder to be able to forgive and  give a special taste in this part of the film. In some scenes we need to accept things as they are because we can not change them, and we learn to go ahead alone or with help of others  actors.

On some field you can be a principal actor and  on the others you need to respect the principal actor. Please don't be moving like a principal actor everywhere. Our actions dont produce the same effect in each scene so don't be desapointed if it happen.

In some situations our role can be  to observe only with detachment, in some others we need to participate so play this role with all your being, be present, try your best.
You need to play your role for a periode and then you have to leave the field in oder to give chance to an other to come and play his role. If you block this process you can create desharmony so the others will use many ways to force you to leave the place free.

Exercise:
A. 1.Introduce yourself with natural identity ( Name, gender, country) 2.society's rancking 3.all the others attributions
B. Consider a difficult situation : don't imagine but work on something true.
C. How started the scene, how ended the scene or how it is if you don't have a solution?
D. Find your part with objectivity in the scene.
E. Which kind of actor are you? which kind of effects do you produce in various scenes?
F. Do you want to go ahead in this way or you understand that something can be done better as before?
You have the possibility to restart again, get your courage and make a step ahead.

Remember that if you tell to somebody"go away i don't want to see you anymore" it's possible to create a strong connection that set up in you violence, sadness,... at any time you'll hear the name of this person, you feel uncomfortability.

Now read once more the text: you may discover that maybe in some moment it was important to remain quiet but you said a word and the discussion became strong or...
If you was wrong, use peacefull tools to resolve the situation:

If you are not able to face the situation, invite other actors on the field.
I`m also one of many actors.
Is your film dramatic, Horror, action, comedy, spiritual,...?

The second element is the" key"

Our mind works though tree elements:
1. The input: all the informations that arrive in our mind through the 5 sens's organs.


2.The Program:  Is the store of Knowledge or value you received from Parent's education, school's education, religious education, from associations, from friends, or things that for various circomstances  a person  learn  himself or understand,... when you agree with those informations, they build your personality and your state of soul depend to the harmony or desarmony of your actions with your program.


3.The output: Is our reactions in front of situations. This output help the others to know you, or to have an idea of you.
I call the passage Input-program-output GOLDEN PATH

 The second part of this post is personal, but i need first your comment about the first part.

"Before giving the answer "yes" or "no" ,"i know" or " i don't know" we follow the "golden path" conscious or unconscious. Many persons jump the program, but many situations ogligate us to pass throught program in oder to react acording to our personality". Read once more the all text and send to me your comments. lukodikrista@yahoo.fr

Free your mind and fly(just to relax)

When the mind is free, the soul is peaceful the expression of this harmony inspired by a rythm can let a smile appear and a human can dance even things around are looking serious. Ther's time for all what you want, but you need to do things at their right moment.

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YOU are more than a STEREO, you need just to wake up

Somebody told me one day that I was not intelligent, i gave a simple smile and say thanks. an oder day he told me that i was intelligent, I gave a smile and say thanks. He asked this question:"I dont understand you, is everything ok for you? yes  I answered. But he told me that I was hiding my real sensation and that is not human.
now I hare the secret of my philosophy
when you want to listen to the music using a stereo, you need to press ON to start and to press STOP to end. When they tell me that I'm intelligent I  start jumping and when they tell me the contrary I become sad . You don't understand that the others decide about your happiness and your sadness. you need to do something , you can not go ahead in this way. I'm "myself" and the others are looking in me what they need to feell comfort and when they find it they congratulate me with many expressions and when they don't find they tell me the contrary. Now the question is "who am I"?
Feel free to write to my personal E-mail if you need to get start :  lukodikrista@yahoo.fr  because of the privacy and if you want to share the experience after on the blog that will be the next step.

The test: be honest with yourself
1.Who are you? give five answers
2.write down five of your qualities(strengthness)
3.write down five of your bad habit(weakness)


you can be an expert but don't desgrace others because you are expert on some feld in many others you are not expert: be humble, honnest and help the others with your capacity, give your best, collaborate...


I will be greatful for your suggestions in oder to offer good  quality of this service.
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The extremities are dangerous in our life:we need balance

I remeber the firstday i receved a toy from my parents i started playing until i forgot to eat. When they called me to eat i refused. Some days after they gave me some rules to follow in oder to equilibrate the life, it was very difficult but i tried. I remember also that my behaviors changed in font of my friend: i was gentle to play with them at the mean time i was the boss because i could decide to end the game or to make rules. When my toy was destroyed, i becam so humble and the relationship with my friends was pure. when i got the new toy everything changed because i understood the need of respecting the others, to let them enjoy the life with my toy without stupid rules as before and they was using the toy with love and attention.
 Ask following questions to yourself and be honest with your answer.

Compare the story with some aspect of your life

1.Now as a person more than 12 years old, i ask myself: how many time i forget to eat(or to care myself ) because i've to do something very important? this body will be tired one day remember this

2:Now i have a best job ranking :do i consider the others persons as useless men?

3.Do i identify myself with what i have? do i desgrace the others? take care it can be like a toy.

This is just the beginning of many others topics.