SELFPROGRESS
Be yourself, give a smile, no violence, learn to be patient, contribute to build a peaceful world. you are welcome to explore my world and thanks for the visit. best wishes for your life.
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Tuesday, May 13, 2014
CAUSES OF SUFFERING
People are always on search of happiness and they are confused, because they don't recognise that they have already what they need or because they don't need what they have.
What do you really need to be happy?
The main question is "who are you ?""who am i?", because the need is related to our nature. This is why a kid will need something different than a adult, a man than a women, a student than a worker...
My master tald me:
If you look outside yourself for what will fulfill you or make happy,you are very lukely to be desappointed.If you desire something outside yourself, you are suffering from a misconception about reality.
But originally we are ourselves and we don't need nothing to be happy, because happiness and peace are not things we need to find somewhere else,but they are part of our nature without any others identifications(Profession,social ranking...).
Suffering is negative because it bring uncomfortability, but the uncomfortability brings motivation to find a new way. Suffering is a nice motivation for our evolution or progress.
An
ancient teaching that comes from Vedanta in India describes five causes
of suffering called the Five Kleshas.
The first cause of suffering is not knowing the true nature of Reality.
The second cause of suffering is grasping or holding onto what is illusory or insubstantial.
The third cause of suffering is from an aversion to something, a fear of something, a revulsion to something that is insubstantial.
The fourth is identification with the false self or ego and thus we are constricted and limited in our consciousness.
The fifth cause of suffering is the fear of death.
As you can figure out, all of these causes of suffering are contained in the first one which does not know the true nature of reality
The first cause of suffering is not knowing the true nature of Reality.
The second cause of suffering is grasping or holding onto what is illusory or insubstantial.
The third cause of suffering is from an aversion to something, a fear of something, a revulsion to something that is insubstantial.
The fourth is identification with the false self or ego and thus we are constricted and limited in our consciousness.
The fifth cause of suffering is the fear of death.
As you can figure out, all of these causes of suffering are contained in the first one which does not know the true nature of reality
when you live in a difficult situation that you can't explain you suffer.
this is why diseases, various pains bring sufferings because we don't know when and how it will end, if we should die what will happen after that. Why am i in this situation...not knowing the true nature of reality is thinking and seeing things in ways that distort reality.
All good and love is inside you at the core
of your being. if you
travel within and focus completely inside in
the center of your being, you will find the
love, peace and fulfillment you have been
looking for. Anything outside is transitory
and shallow compared with what is within.
It takes courage to make the journey to the
center of your being as you have to let go
of the illusion of separateness or
emptiness.
You will stop suffering as you enter into
that relationship with the universal cosmic
Energy(call it as you want) and let go of the
idea that you are vacuously empty. When you
discover God within, all craving ceases along
with any fear, revulsion, prejudice or anger.
All good and love is inside you at the core
of your being. if you
travel within and focus completely inside in
the center of your being, you will find the
love, peace and fulfillment you have been
looking for. Anything outside is transitory
and shallow compared with what is within.
It takes courage to make the journey to the
center of your being as you have to let go
of the illusion of separateness or
emptiness.
You will stop suffering as you enter into
that relationship with the universal cosmic
Energy(call it as you want) and let go of the
idea that you are vacuously empty. When you
discover God within, all craving ceases along
with any fear, revulsion, prejudice or anger.
greats master tried to give answers to this question:
Jesus said: suffering was caused by separating from the love of God. Disconecting through negative thoughts, actions, and emotions that take us away from God. essentially, Jesus taught that falling away from our real nature, our true being, causes us to suffer. In order to connect again with our real nature, we need to love God first and love all of our brothers and sisters wihtout exception. Jesus further elaborated the way to get back into oneness with God through the simples teachings of the beatitudes. For exemple:"blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God."
Buddha
taught that desire causes suffering. When we do not have what we want,
we long for it and this causes a burning in our being until it is
satisfied. If we withdraw our attention from the object of our desire or
craving, then we cease to suffer.
when you plant a sead, before it becomes a plant, that sead need to die, to be transformed and this process is painful and it force the sead to loose many things in order to give life to a new plant that will later bring fruit and a lot of other benefits to the Human being and all the nature.
So pain can be a motivation for our evolution or progress.
We don't need to be afraid to loose because many others beautiful things come only when we loose, we let go, we detache ourselves from what we actually have.
Fear of death: nobody knows exactly what happens after the death. All what we know about are only considerations. Instead of waisting time to be searching all the life we just believe that there is life after this experience. Your believe will give the meaning of all your life on earth. when we have this end so clear, but what make us sad before dieing is the attachement to things, to peoples, fear to loose.
Fear of death: nobody knows exactly what happens after the death. All what we know about are only considerations. Instead of waisting time to be searching all the life we just believe that there is life after this experience. Your believe will give the meaning of all your life on earth. when we have this end so clear, but what make us sad before dieing is the attachement to things, to peoples, fear to loose.
some peoples said:
-Death brings fear because i detache with nice peoples, but i believe that i'll be going to a beautiful place, so i feel happiness just thinking this way;
-It is a passage and we are obligated to go without anything;
-We are all strangers on this world and each of us has a mission. At the end of the mission we need to go back home. The fear comes because we don't understand if the mission is at the end or not. It's also difficult to understand this mission during the life or we are so attached to our mission and we suffer to leave it and we think that no one else can continue it.
I believe in God, death is my meeting with him, so to die means to loose everything in order to meet my father who is the creator of the universe. This is one of the vision that can make somebody relaxed before dying.
Friday, April 25, 2014
KNOWLEDGE
From
the childhood up to a certain age this topic is not matter of research
because the person identifies himself deeply with his nature and can
experience joy and peace from this identity independently from his
life‘s state. Growing up you will realize or the others will tell you
that you are : beautiful, intelligent, strong, ugly, small, big, fit,
stupid, weak, rich, pour…
From
this moment if you identify yourself with those adjectives, your state
of soul, your happiness will depend to this new identification. Your
concept of peace and happiness changes and if your new identity doesn’t
satisfy you, you loose peace. As nobody want to live without
peace(because it’s part of our deep nature), you will start to search a
way to stay in peace. Many person use many ways, some ways can lead to
experience superficial peace and destroy the others or yourself directly
or indirectly; Some others ways lead to no where; Many ways bring also good
result and you‘ll experience health, to understand the meaning of life’s situations, good
mood, creativity, relax, strength…
Yoga is one oft the way that lead you to discover your real self free from everything, to renew your energy, to re conciliate with your inner self, to wake up your capacity… then you’ll experience quietness of the mind, healthy and relaxed body , you'll become patient to resolve situations,…
Yoga is one oft the way that lead you to discover your real self free from everything, to renew your energy, to re conciliate with your inner self, to wake up your capacity… then you’ll experience quietness of the mind, healthy and relaxed body , you'll become patient to resolve situations,…
That is my experience. Do you want to experience?
if you want to start with me, watch this video and send to me your comment. There are 12 exercises coordinated with breaths.
Video description: Ideal Lukodi introduce the Sun Salutation for beginners
0.Start in Tadasana for 1 minute, in order to get grounded and to get centered, keep your body relaxed and close your eyes; Now open your eyes
1.Inhale raise your hands up and while exhaling bring your hand in prayer pose,
2.inhale
hands up, 3.exhale bend forward, 4.inhale step your right leg back with
your left knee on the floor, 5.hold you breath and bring your left close
to the right, 6.breath out while greeting the floor, 7.breath in raise your
head to open your chest, 8.breath out look behind and stretch your legs,
9.breath in step with you right leg forward, 10.breath out bring your left
leg, 11.breath in raise your hands up and 12.exhale bring your hand near your
body. Then do the same with your left leg. Repeat the exercise for 5
Minutes and relax as you see in the video.
Breath always through the nose.
Peace and love be always with you
for contact: lukodikrista@yahoo.fr
Thursday, January 17, 2013
Vitalität und Gelassenheit im Alltag
Persönliche Daten
Ideal
Okes Lukodi, geboren am 26.01.1979 in Mukedi, Demokratische Republik Kongo.
Studium
der Volkswirtschaftslehre in Kinshasa (Master).
Studium
„Christliche Spiritualität und geistliche Theologie“ am Institut Mystici
Corporis, Loppiano (Florenz, Italien).
Ausbildung
in Vertikaltuch-Artistik bei den uruguayischen Tanzakrobaten Gabriel Zoccola
und Agustin Lima.
Schulungen zum Yoga-Lehrer: Einführung in das Raja-Yoga in
Kinshasa; Yoga-Schule Samadhi in Florenz; Ausbildung zum zertifizierten
Yoga-Vidya-Lehrer in Bad Meinberg.
Erfahrung
als Gruppenleiter von Kinder- und Jugendgruppen in der Fokolar-Bewegung.
Seit
drei Jahren Leiter verschiedener Yoga-Kurse, zum Beispiel:
-
Prävention von Bewegungserkrankungen im Rahmen des Movimento per la
Salute, Incisa (Italien),
-
Entspannungs- und Konzentrationsübungen zur Prüfungsvorbereitung am
Hochschulinstitut „Sophia“ in Loppiano (Italien),
-
Gewaltpräventionskurse im Rahmen des internationalen Projekts „Stark
ohne Gewalt“ an verschiedenen deutschen Schulen (Dortmund, Bonn, Regensburg,
Ellwangen, Isny und Leipzig).
Sprachkenntnisse:
Französisch, Italienisch, English, Deutsch sowie in den kongolesischen Sprachen
Kikongo, Lingala und Kibunda.
Seit
fünf Jahren Mitglied einer Fokolar-Gemeinschaft.
Was ist“ Selfprogress“: make
your own Step(macht deine eigene Schritte)
Selfprogress
bedeutet:ganz bewusst bestimmte Schritte zu machen, um sich positiv zu entwickln.
Im Leben muss man manchmal Schritte nach vorne machen, manchmal ist es wichtig ein Schritt zurück nach hinten zu ziehen. Unser Leben braucht ständig Energie, deshalb müssen wir uns immer wieder mit neuen Energie laden. Energie tanken, Energie sparen, Energie verbrauchen, Energie
lenken, sind geläufige Wörte, die Gleichgewicht verlangen.
Dafür bietet Selfprogress Reihen von Übungen für jedes Alter an. Für die Jugendliche
gibt es die Möglichkeit, Yogaübungen mit dem Vertikaltuch zu vereinbaren. Die verschiedenen
Angebote können sowohl wie Kurse als auch wie Workshops geführt werden.
Wozu dienen Yoga-Übungen?
Unter
professioneller und sorgsamer Anleitung können schon wenige Yoga-Übungen
bemerkenswerte und nachhaltige Wirkungen hervorrufen: Verspannungen im
Schulter- und Nackenbereich lösen sich, Rückenschmerzen lassen nach oder
verschwinden, Körper und Geist verspüren neue Energie, Vitalität und Klarheit.
Yoga-Übungen stärken das Immunsystem, fördern die innere Ausgeglichenheit und
verbessern die Konzentrationsfähigkeit. Auf diese Weise tragen sie bei zu einem
gesunden und stressfreien Leben und helfen, auch in schwierigen Situationen
Gelassenheit und Selbstbeherrschung zu bewahren. Yoga stärkt das
Selbstvertrauen sowie den Respekt vor sich und anderen.
Elemente zur
Programmergänzung:
Für Gruppenprogramme, Seminare, Wochenendtagungen, Exerzitien
u.ä.m. bieten sich einzelne Yoga-Elemente als ideale Programmergänzung an. Auf
Nachfrage lassen sich speziell auf die Bedürfnis der jeweiligen Gruppe
zugeschnittene Übungen zusammenstellen.
Einige Beispiele:
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Atem- und Entspannungsübungen als Vorbereitung
für kontemplative bzw. geistliche Programmpunkte (30 Minuten).
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„Frisch in den neuen Tag“ (45 Minuten)
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Das 15-Minuten-Wiederwachwerdprogramm (für die Pause zwischen zwei
anstrengenden Vorträgen)
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Das 15-Minuten-Auffrischungsprogramm nach der Mittagspause
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„Ruhig in den Schlaf“ (30 Minuten)
Power-Yoga
Welcher
junge Mensch möchte nicht cool und selbstsicher sein, den eigenen Körper
beherrschen, vor schwierigen Situationen nicht zurückschrecken, Kraft und
Ausdauer haben? Power-Yoga für Jugendliche bietet Übungen zur Steigerung von
Körperkraft und Ausdauer sowie zur Gewichtskontrolle, aktiviert aber zugleich
auch brach liegendes Potential im Bereich der Intuition und Kreativität. Das
Programm eignet sich auch zum Einsatz in der Gewaltpräventionsarbeit.
(Kursdauer: 10 Wochen, 2 x 75 Minuten pro Woche)
Workshop mit dem
Vertikaltuch
Ein unerwartetes Erlebnis: zwischen Himmel und Erde mit dem
Tuch die Angst überwinden und das Selbstvertrauen fördern. Kraft, Konzentration, Flexibilität und Spaß erleben Sie mit dem
Tuch.
Angst-Bewältigungs-Programm
Je
näher die Prüfung kommt, desto größer wird die Angst vor dem „schwarzen Loch“,
vor dem völligen Blackout. Vor jedem noch so kleinen öffentlichen Auftritt
kommt das große Lampenfieber. Die Minuten vor dem Gespräch mit dem Vorgesetzten
werden zum Albtraum. Spezielle Yoga-Übungen stärken die Konzentrations- und
Merkfähigkeit und verbessern so die Selbstsicherheit. Ängste werden abgebaut
und das Bewusstsein für die eigene Wertigkeit und Freiheit fördert eine
respektvolle Begegnung auf Augenhöhe. (Kursdauer: 4 Wochen, 1 x 60 Minuten pro
Woche)
Anti-Stress-Programm
Stress
in der Arbeit, Stress zu Hause, Stress in der Freizeit. Viele Menschen fühlen
sich von den Anforderungen des modernen Lebens überfordert und träumen von
einem stressfreien Leben. Doch Stress wird erst dann negativ, wenn er zu häufig
und ohne körperlichen Ausgleich auftritt. Die Yoga-Übungen im
Anti-Stress-Programm stellen das psycho-physische Gleichgewicht wieder her,
sorgen für eine Grund-Entspannung und geben so neue Kraft, um den Anforderungen
des Lebens in der richtigen Weise begegnen zu können. (Kursdauer: 10 Wochen, 2 x
75 Minuten pro Woche)
Kontakt:
Ideal Lukodi
Tel.0049157 869 40 258
Neuer Weg 13
86 316 Friedberg/ Germany
youtube: Ideal Lukodi
Skype: ideal.lukodi
Facebook: Ideal Lukodi
http://ideal-raj.blogspot.de (selfprogress)
Tel.0049157 869 40 258
Neuer Weg 13
86 316 Friedberg/ Germany
youtube: Ideal Lukodi
Skype: ideal.lukodi
Facebook: Ideal Lukodi
http://ideal-raj.blogspot.de (selfprogress)
lukodikrista@yahoo.fr
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